Fairly recently I have hit a curve in the road, yet I don’t quite
know if it’s due to my own doing or if it is the pressure from individuals to
purposely seek and find my errors, almost as if a missile has zoned in on me
and its chasing me down with no desire to stop.
If you are reading this and you are one of the people I am
going to describe, please stop your horrible behavior, it really a pain in the
back side and what do you possibly get out of making others’ lives miserable? Really you suck and its sucky to make others
hate going about their daily lives, trying to hold a job, provide for a family
and still enjoy what time they have to spend with you and others during the
day.
I am not and I will say it in capital letters NOT this kind
of person, it is beyond my capability of pure understanding why people choose
to react and treat others this way, you are not Holler than thou, your farts don’t
smell like roses and please the sun does not shine when you walk around and
sets when you sit down, no, you are like me, a human being and you are making
others unhappy. You are a grown up
bully!! When you purposely go out of your way to discuss a person, whether it
is their dress sense, their car they drive, the area they live in or the way
they look, then you are a mean person who needs to take a step back and think
just what you are saying about that person.
Look at them and figure out for yourself, God gave you a brain, that
person is struggling to keep head above water but plants that smile on their
faces to make you believe all is ok, that person eats bread day in and day out
but carries on like they have a 5 star dinner like you every night, that person
sits their evening through consoling a baby/child who is sick or in pain and functions
on minimal sleep, so excuse me if these people aren’t up to your standards, we
are simply trying NOT to fail at life.
Some of us did not have the privilege to study straight after school and
could finish our studies while we were single and carefree, no, we have to do
it with our husband helping keep small children entertainer and have us not
feel like we are missing out on some of the best years of our children’s lives
to provide for them. Or even not have
our children live with us because the quality of life is better with their
other aren’t and we trying to fight a battle to be able to be in a position to
provide that one day.
So when you make a colleagues life at work hell, when you
gossip because her hair has not been colored in forever and she looks horrible,
when his car doesn’t start in the parking lot because he cant afford a battery
at the moment and needs to be push started or when the person cant join in your
weekly lunch because they would rather use the excuse of being busy then to
tell you they have R50 left until pay day, maybe then sit back or take a step
back and re-evalutate your situation and shut your big mouth before making
someone else feel worse than they already feel.
My advice is to rather empower, inspire, help, motivate and
understand that we all have our problem but please don’t contribute to
them. Make someone’s day rather than
break them.
Peace and love people, peace and love
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